Flirting with everyone is yummy

I just visited a party where we learned how to flirt Italian style. The ABC's of this can be a way for us to enter into a more yummy life and so wanted to share with you the tips: A: Abondanza yes, abundance, being in joy full, generous, wanting to share in the richness of life. The only person limiting us to fun in the yum is our own denial that we have to withhold or can't be outgoing out of fear or limitation. Why? Go for it, the universe blesses us, we can share in this abundance so everyone can feel rich and free to be themselves, there is always enough love to go around, actually it is limitless. B: Bella, Beauty, seeing the beauty in all people, no matter what, you can flirt with anyone, everyone has something special and beautiful about them, tell them, affirm it for them, they will then be able to embrace their beauty in the acknowledgment. We all want to be seen, appreciations feel so good, so go for it. Share with everyone their beauty and uniqueness and see how much they light up from having you give this gift to them. C. Coraggio, Courage. I know it is scary to put yourself out there, but really what do you have to loose, we are in abundance afterall..... Overcome the judging, limiting mind that keeps you from being your true dynamic nature of being playful and expressive. In another C,compassion, we all accept each other with unconditional understanding and support. Be not fearful of your magnificence, you are an amazing being and the world is just waiting to see you shine. Imagine a place where we are all uplifting each other into that place. That is yummatopia. So go out, have fun, flirt like you have nothing to loose, enjoy the turn on and the turning on of each other. Yesterday I won the Ms Bay Area Flirt , mostly because I love to be yummy and share that yum with others, bringing out their yummy beautiful selves to interact and connect in. All of us can benefit from being seen, acknowledged and having interest in even for just a few moments.

Importance of Touch and Kissing

Last Saturday we had our first Moosch and Smooch. The evening's intention was to come together and explore the possibilities of touch, holding, and cuddling, as well as ways we can kiss someone without actually sharing any communicable passages. Why does moosching feeling so good? We are defined by touch. When we are alone and separated from another, do we really exist? When we come into contact with another, we share in the sensation and feeling of each other. The hug, the squeeze, the caress, holding and confirming our presence in the world. Our first experiences in life that soothed us and let us relax into peace was when we were held close by our mothers. It is the most basic form of healing. When we connect and in a sense penetrate each other in the moosching of skin on skin, we come into union, we share in a sensational experience with each other, celebrating the enlivenment of ourselves. In kissing we are in a sense sharing breath, the Aloha, lips are the key to our eating,our speaking, our expression, our tasting, our breath passage. In smooching another we share a depth of intimacy, tasting each other, consummating our union of flesh and spirit through breath and fluid exchange (think saliva). The sensations of a hungry mouth consuming and devouring another can be a way of enlivenment in a shared experience of connection. So many ways to kiss: how many can you come up with? So many ways to moosch each other as well: how many ways and places can you think to contact, reach out and touch another in reverence, in playfulness, in full awareness of the sweetness and healing that can be possible. Our next Moosch and Smooch will be May 9th. Come join us, we create a safe, honored, conscious space to explore and play in.

healing foods life's precious gift

In Yummatopia we believe it is essential to have a proper diet. As we come to open our bodies to greater capacity of orgasmic and and higher states of consciousness our bodies are the vehicle. Through the intake of life enhancing foods that heal and rejuvenate us, we are clearer, stronger and able to maintain an excellence of our quality of life. No one is getting sick that is in Yummatopia and I know it is becasue the healing power of the foods offered here keep the bugs away. Green juice and fermented foods such as kraut, living sprouts, fresh fruits, spices of tumeric and garlic, and herbed waters are the focus of our kitchen and we abundantly share this with all our guests in yummatopia. We will be offering raw food cooking classes soon and we also invite yummatopians to come and share meals with us in community. We ar ehere for you to learn to live a more yummy life.

sunday afternoon loving

One of YumMatopia's dreams came true this beautiful Sunday afternoon. Our poly love tribe of interconnected lovers and friends came together for brunch and touch. It started with waking in the morning in one of my lover's arms, listening to the sounds of my sister in the other room waking as well. After an extended snuggle watching the birds consume from the bird feeder and slow caresses and holds, I tear myself away to come into my roomies room and dive into bed with her and her lover for a morning kiss. Sharing the excitement of the night's adventures at Temple of Orgasm and Burnal Equinox, feeling alive from all the dancing and love making, riding the energy still as we roll around the bed laughing and hugging our day into being. A trip to the Marin Farmers Market to buy incredible greens, tamales, and the most sweetest stawberries ever. Coming home to everyone naked sunning themselves out on our outdoor bed. Our neighbors come by with their farmers market booty to share in a brunch. We are so blessed to have one of our tribe across the street to share together our love and support. We all begin to prepare our meal all in the kitchen dancing and laughing, sharing recipe tricks. We go to eat outside together and as I look around I know all of us in some way or another have shared intimacy with at least 2 to 3 in the gathering. After eating we all lay around, massaging and talking (we have an outdoor table, couch and bed) Me doing tantsu, while the flower petals from our trees drop onto us, blessing our love family. Thank you for sharing with me all the beauty and passion that is possible, knowing we can have it all.

spring beauty

The mornings are especially sweet here in yummatopia. Waking to the birds singing their sweet songs. The light is incredible shining into our temple space, doing yoga in the nude in such open space, almost seeming to be out side with the trees blooming the most amazing abundance of pink blossoms, Aphrodite energy. In my mediation I invoke the elements of divine to perfectly combine in this temple consecrated to love and accomplish below that which is above. Juicing the green energy to vitalize my body....I enjoy the rest of my day in bliss, doing tantsu and massage on clients while listening to my fountain, watching the beauty of our home reveal itself in each moment. Friends and lovers come by, I welcome them into the joy of sharing such peaceful and sacred place I can provide becasue the goddess has blessed me with the ability to create a sanctuary. Evening comes and I hike to the top of the hill behind me, such incredible green vibrant and in abundance, the wild life abounding. Offering my prayers of thanks for such a wonderful and blessed day into the setting sun. I celebrate the richness of life and welcome my beloveds to come share with me in the yum.